Chances are you have already met him. Now before you twist your face in several knots while rolling your eyes consider this. Every man you meet is basically a sample of the man you eventually will be with. All the best parts of every man you've ever will be present in the one you choose to spend forever with. That's the good news! In other news all the stuff they did that really sent you to the edge will be present too. Obviously I'm not talking about betrayal, or cheating but I am speaking about him doing things that gross you out, not calling you at 9:00 on the dot or whatever little things that kinda bug you.
In my case my husband is to damn goofy! I should have traction as many times a day that I shake my head in disbelief of his latest comment. All while we were dating I always seemed to say that about him. I mean he's one of the most responsible people I know, but this man has got some kind of thought process.
Recently, he went to the grocery store, mind you he bugged me to write him out a list of things we needed. I obliged, since I was not in the mood to go myself. An Hour later he returns with only 2 of the 15 things on the list. Everything else was a substitute for what I actually asked for. He was told me the store was out of a lot, so instead of not getting anything he got me the closest thing to it. Now anyone who knows me knows when I ask for a specific brand of something like Hillshire Farm Beef hot Polish links, it's usually because that's the kind I like...DUH otherwise I would have said just get some sausage. But not my beloved, he got some random beef sausage because he just wanted to get me something. Under my breath I wanted to scream, he had just spent $50.00 on items we didn't need, or that I didn't like, and then followed with "Well, I'm going back on Tuesday". Great, so we can spend another $50.00 getting what was actually on the list.
As I made a mad dash to leave the room as to not show my complete frustration I remembered, He didn't have to go to the store, He spent his money, and used his time. so I don't have my hot links, but I do have someone who at least attempted to do something to make me happy. So he's a bit of a scatter brain, I've changed my hair and the title of this post 3 times today.
Believe it or not, our mates are our mirrors. What you can't stand in him, you most likely possess. He's there to teach you to work on yourself, and in that way he is perfect, for You.
That's so funny but true...I am You and You are Me. The problem is self-recognition. Most people spend very little time viewing themselves before giving themselves away. Therefore, when we see the face in the mirror(our mates) we know not, what we see.
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